Did you know that you can have anything you want? Close your eyes for a moment and picture it. It could be anything. Just picture having it. Listen to the sounds, reach out your hands and touch it, breathe in deeply and smell it.
‘The world is your oyster’. Those simple 5 words were written a long time ago, and yet we are only beginning to understand the meaning of it.
What differenciates us from those on top? We look upon them with envy and jelousy. We blame and accuse. But we never stop and look behind them. What led to their success? What got them to were they are?
This may come to you as a suprise but believe it or not, we all have it within us!
The first question that you would need to ask yourself is..what exactly is it that you want from life? what are your dreams? your goals? your ambitions?
Stop for a moment in your busy life and think about this!
Each person should be able to come up with a unique answer.
People arn’t successfull because of their high intelligence or money. Ok, yes we agree that such things will increase your chances..but then only to a certain extent. The real barrier that seperates those people that are really on top to others, is Passion! Hard work! How far are YOU willing to go to get what YOU WANT? This is the one most critical factor that all successfull people understand. How badly do you want it?
In todays times, people have become lazy. According to Google’s definition, the word “lazy” refers to “moving slowly and gently; “up a lazy river”; “lazy white clouds”; “at a lazy pace”.
Now in order for us to achieve our goals, to become successful, we need to move away from this ideology, out of the comfort zone.
People generally prefer to remain within the comfort zone and the main reason for this is FEAR! The fear of taking risks, the fear of moving forward, fear of things around us, fear of what might not happen!
Pushing through to leave your comfort zone is hard work. Nature demonstrates that graphically for us. The chick pecking its way out of the shell, the butterfly struggling through the cacoon. All of this illustrates how struggle is necessary in order to bring life, growth and SUCCESS.
The good news is that once we have faced our fears and found our ways, we now find ourselves in a new world. Everytime we push out and live out of our comfort zone we find we will never be the same. GROWTH HAPPENS!
A little idea that I once read about to live a better life or might I say a more fuller life, is that each day, you should do something or say something that are afraid off. This technique may sound simple, but trust me, it is one of the most productive techniques out there.
So you say you are ready now? Ready to conquer the world! Ready to start moving out of the comfort zone! Ready to start living life? GOOD! Realisation is the most important step! You are now part of the selected few who have realised this bit of information.
What do you need to do next you say? My advice to you is:
1. Clean out your desk completely.
2. Take out a clean sheet of paper and pen.
3. On the top write “GOALS”.
4. Below that write down 2 sub-headings labelled “Short Term Goals” & “Long Term Goals”.
5. Now write down what you would like from the world in those according headings.
6. Stick that piece of paper in a place that you cross often.
7. Each morning when you wake up, turn to that page and remind yourself of your goals. VISION IT! EMBRACE IT!
Close your eyes and start dreaming my friend. The world is a catalog awaiting your requests. All you have to do is want it sincerely.
- Written by: Imraan Moosa